I’ve been reflecting deeply on what it means to be in a position of leadership—the responsibilities it entails, and the role of the ego. There is so much that demands our attention: endless meetings, countless decisions to be made. It’s easy to lose sight of the "why" behind it all.
Why do we do what we do?
Why choose jobs that are so demanding?
And, how do we assert ourselves in a predominantly male-driven business landscape?
As an older Latina woman, I face challenges that often fuel the battle within my ego. Navigating ego-driven tantrums and cultural micro-aggressions requires objectivity, sensitivity, and a trust that fosters open dialogue. Many are not willing to pause and question their visceral reactions. Yet, when we fail to examine our ego, the mission can become obscured by power struggles—titles becoming more important than purpose, overshadowed by the daily grind.
Today, at church, I was reminded that we are not here to be served, but to serve. We are here to serve with justice and joy. I needed that reminder. No matter my job title, age, ethnicity, or race, I am here to serve. If we all took this approach, how much easier would it be to discern the murmurings of an ego that constantly seeks attention?
When we feel uncertain about our actions, intentions, or reactions, I encourage us all to pause and observe them objectively (sprinkled with prayer). Ask yourself, "Is this my ego, or am I responding to a need for justice through service?"
There is much work to be done, and each of us has been given unique and beautiful gifts to help meet the needs of the most vulnerable among us. While some may consider this a liberal outlook, I believe this is precisely what we are called to: a life of service, justice, and joy (sprinkled with prayer).
Comments